Part 1: The ten golden rules of argument     1        Golden Rule 1:             Be prepared      2        Golden Rule 2:             When to argue, when to walk away      3        Golden Rule 3:  What you say and how you say it    4        Golden Rule 4:             Listen and listen again    5        Golden Rule 5:             Excel at responding to arguments    6        Golden Rule 6:             Watch out for crafty tricks    7        Golden Rule 7:             Develop the skills for arguing in public    8        Golden Rule 8:             Be able to argue in writing    9        Golden Rule 9:             Be great at resolving deadlock  10        Golden Rule 10:             Maintain relationships              Part 2: Situations where arguments commonly arise   11        How to argue with those you love  12        How to argue with your children  13        Arguments at work  14        How to complain  15        How to get what you want from an expert  16        Arguing when you know you're in the wrong  17        Arguing again and again  18        Doormats  19        How to be a good winner  20        To recap 

The ability to persuade, influence and convince is a vital skill for success in work and life.  However, most of us have little idea how to argue well. Indeed, arguing is still seen by many as something to be avoided at all costs, and mostly it’s done really badly – or not at all. Yet it’s possibly the most powerful and yet most neglected asset you could have.   Discover the art of arguing powerfully, persuasively and positively and you’ll have a head start every time you want to:   Put your point across effectivelyPersuade other people to your way of thinkingKeep your cool in a heated situationWin people overGet what you wantTackle a difficult person or topicBe convincing and articulateHave great confidence when you speak   In How to Argue, leading lawyer, husband and father Jonathan Herring reveals the secrets and subtleties of making your case and winning hearts and minds. At home or at work, you’ll be well equipped to make everything you say have the desired effect, every time.